Looks like it's a "Mexican and Margaritas" dinner tonight!
I didn't realize how much I would be effected by a negative test/AF arrival. All along I knew how unlikely it was that we'd get pregnant the first go-around, but I'm still pretty bummed out that it didn't happen. It's probably because one of our friends in another online community found out she was pregnant 8 DPO (and she insemed around the same time we did). I am SO happy for her and her family, but at the same time I feel the slightest pang of jealousy. I wish we could have been in that unlikely group that gets pregnant on the first try. Hopefully the next time will be a success for us.
Onto try #2.
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Sorry about the BFN :( Enjoy your tequila tonight!
We were surprised at how disappointed we were when the first try didn't work. Even though we didn't really expect it to, it turned out we were much more hopeful than we realized and were surprisingly upset when we got a BFN. Sorry to hear about yours. Enjoy Mexican and margaritas (yummm) and good luck with try #2!
I'm sorry to hear that, and I really hope it happens for you next time around. And the jealousy/anger is totally normal. I have been ashamed to feel jealous/angry inside upon hearing of many pregnancies in the past few years (especially accidental ones!) Enjoy your Margaritas... and prepare for the next. It'll happen for you!
Sorry about your BFN. I know how disappointing it is.. I think myfirst one was my biggest let down.. just b/c i was so naive and thought I would get pregnant the first time. In any cae, enjoy the Mexican and margaritas.. I know we'll be having some brandy and eggnog this Christmas :)
So sorry...that first BFN was really the most emotional for us, which also surprised us.
Enjoy your night out...I always feel more hopeful the next day. Gotta have some grief time. My sister reminds me that it is all a game of chance and if you were playing solitaire you would shuffle and deal again.
I'm cheering you along with try #2!!
Oh knackers. I was so hoping you guys would be a one hit wonder. Sorry you are hurting - I hope the margaritas help take the edge off it.
Sorry guys. I am right there with ya. Try #2 is just around the corner--I can't believe I'm already back in the 2ww so fast!
so sorry. Everyone wants the first try to be the one. hope you enjoy the margaritas. hoping for next time
Hey there! Yay for periods indeed. That was funny. Sorry it didn't happen the first try guys! I'm preparing myself for that as well :( Good luck this cycle for us both!! I will continue to follow your blog!!!
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